Posted Today - 1:35pm As a lesbian and an omnivore, I've always been somewhat baffled/distressed by the disproportionate number of lesbians who are either vegetarian or vegan. Not that I have anything against those diets, because I don't. It would just be nice every once in a while to find a girl that I could go to say, McDonalds with and not risk a lecture about the cruelty of slaughterhouses or the superiority of soy-based meat substitutes. Any thoughts on this phenomenon? | |
Posted 53 minutes ago Oh my god I was literally having this conversation on Friday with a good friend of mine...I feel like maybe I didnt get the memo! Or maybe that secton of my how to be a good lesbian handbook was missing. | |
Posted 51 minutes ago Living in Portland, I assume there is no correlation. Straight, Lesbian, Gay, I get dirty looks whenever I say "MMMM...I LOVE ME SOME FRIED COW". :D | |
Posted 50 minutes ago I know exactly what you mean! I just made the decision to become a vegetarian about a week ago, and one of the major drawbacks was the stigma of being a gay vegetarian. I don't get it! Now that I am a vegetarian, I feel like I tell people one or the other - I never identify myself as a lesbian and a vegetarian at the same time. It's kind of disappointing, really, especially since I have no problem with people who do eat meat. I wonder if it has something to do with some kind of feeling of being targeted - gay women receive very little recognition in society (arguably even less than gay men) and are often made to feel ostracized. Perhaps a lot of people see themselves reflected in animals who can't defend themselves either? That's the only reasoning I have for it. But even so, when I look at who's more militant about vegetarianism, it always seems to be my lesbian friends. I sympathize! | |
Posted 47 minutes ago That's an interesting point. I'm a lesbian and an omnivore as well, and I've also noticed this strange trend. My mother, sister, and brother are all three vegetarians (although only one of them is a lesbian), so I don't have a problem with it, but I too can feel the burning, judgmental stares of my dates across the dinner table while I munch my fried chicken and they eat their soy salad with spinach sauce (or something equally healthy sounding). I think it's not an issue with lesbians in particular; I think it's that coming out of the closet is something that's hard to do for people of certain political ideologies and backgrounds. By the sheer law of averages, there HAVE to be as many lesbians per capita born in the mountains of West Virginia as there are born in the Castro in San Francisco. Lesbians are about 10% of the female population, and that's just genetics (sorry, Bible thumpers), but people who have a more wealthy, urban, or liberal background are more likely to come into contact with homosexuality at an early age and they're also more likely to be readily accepted by friends and family if and when they come out, so they can come to terms with themselves, avoid those pesky hetero camps, and put themselves out there to start dating other women, and this demographic happens to also be the one most likely to be vegetarian or vegan. I grew up in the south, and I've bumped into several older lesbians over the years who were married with children before they 'discovered' they were attracted to other women, and I don't recall a single vegetarian amongst them. I suppose this question is much like that of the tootsie pop: The world may never know (484 licks to the center, by the way; I DID actually count). | |
Posted 44 minutes ago I've often wondered the same thing. The two actual girlfriends I've had were both vegetarians. One of them actually ended up having bad reactions to dairy and eggs later on. Your guess is as good as mine. |
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